Sober Not Mature

Episodes

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July 6, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 124 (Embracing Our Averageness)

Happy 4th of July Weekend, from your average friends, Mike and Bill. Mike started off with his reading and it was about being average. Are we ok with that? Are we making progress and are we better than we were yesterday. Listen in to find out. We did chit chat about Bill's most recent trip, but then we worked through some cleanup topics. Coincidences and a higher power, laughter and enjoying yourself in sobriety, keeping out of trouble, reacting verses responding and letting go or hangi...
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June 29, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 123 (Spinning Signs and Wasting Times)

This week, it's more of the same. Well the same guys, but different stuff. Yes... it's Mike and Bill again! Mike started off with his reading and it was about time. How we spend it, the quality of the time and of the people that we are around. We also try not to waste time these days. It was a good talk. We talked about podcast episodes, resentments, being good so that we don't have to make amends, solving or accepting problems, is our alcoholism a handicap and spinning signs. There was...
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June 22, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 122 (Choices and Consequences)

This week we have those guys. Yeah those two guys. Mike and Bill. Mike started off with his reading and it was about order. The fact that we had no order in our lives before and sobriety allows us to have just a little but now. It was a good talk. Then our friend Gary had emailed us regarding the question that we had about relationships surviving when a person gets sober. Gary and his husband survived and we shared their story. A Riverside update, rock bottom, happiest cities, gifts of ...
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June 15, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 121 (Filling Your Holes With John From Sober Speak)

This week we have John from Sober Speak for the first half of the episode, then Mike and Bill handle the second half. This will also appear on The Sober Curator, so visit their website! John gave us a little background of what it was like and what it's like now and then we talked about what he does with his website and his podcast. We found out pretty quickly that John is all about humility and he has the sober years behind him to back it up. Check out his website and his podcast! Th...
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June 7, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 120 (Getting The Goat's Consent)

This week it's Founder's Day Weekend! And, your favorite pals, Mike and Bill, are here again. We started off with a slight rant about a thing that happened on Instagram. June is Pride month, we posted about it and someone apparently had an issue with us. Check it out. Then Mike did his reading and it was about values, the beauty of life, doing the next right thing and living well. It actually fit perfectly with the first story and we had a good conversation. On to music news, Green Day,...
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June 1, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 119 (Smirnoff Free But Still Yakin' Off)

This week, guess who? Yep, your favorite fools are back at it again. Yakin' away. Mike started off with a reading about how we evolve when we get sober. The abilities we have, the expectations and the good that we can do, now that we are sober. It was a great conversation. Then some Branson stories, a final wrap of of Rob Halford's book, making a better life, surviving relationships and easy solutions. There's more, but I forget. Enjoy the episode. Visit us Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...
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May 25, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 118 (The Blame Game - Or How Can We All Lose)

This week it's your favorite sober pals again, Mike and Bill. Mike started off with his reading and it was all about blame. It was a great topic and we were able to refer back to it later in the episode. We talked about Memorial Day (past and present), other podcasts, being cool, Texas stuff, freedom from drinking, sponsor stuff and a little bit about a large book. What else? I guess you will just have to listen. Enjoy the episode. Visit us Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...
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May 18, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 117 (Rocket Rides With Gary)

This week we have Gary! Our good friend and our guest from Episode 81. (Make sure to check out that episode also) Since Gary was basically a guest host with us, Mike started off with his reading and it was about risk. Mainly about how we get into recovery and how we deal with it along the way. It was a great conversation. Then Gary had a few topics that ranged from sponsoring, to retreats, to how we change and evolve in recovery. Those were the basics, but quite honestly we all just talked...
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May 11, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 116 (Investigating Contempt)

This week we have Mike and Bill. Yeehaw! (Yes, Bill is in Texas and also recording in a unique place) Mike did his reading and it was all about being in the moment and living in the moment. Something that we have talked about many times and it's how we try to live our lives. It was a good talk. Then we found out that a website has our podcast on it and they said some nice things about us. Check it out here alcoholfree.com More on Rob Halford, contempt prior to investigation, silly ads, the...
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May 4, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 115 (Phat Action Frustration)

This week we have some Phat Action with Mike and Bill. That sounds inappropriate and maybe it is. Mike started off with his reading and it was about higher powers, and egos and allowing things to happen. But also doing the work. It was a good reading and a good conversation. We did a wrap up of last weekend in Cleveland, talked about Tennessee and Bill Clinton. What? Yes, Bill Clinton. A little more about Rob Halford, a movie where a guy had a drinking problem, some work stuff and some ...
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April 27, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 114 (Dopeless Hope Fiends)

This week we are in Cleveland! It's our anniversary weekend extravaganza. And... we had some technology issues, so hang in with us. The funny part is that Mike's reading was about control. And lack of control. We had that with the recording and we have had that in life. Then it was a book wrap up, the journey verses the destination, technology and recovery, things that make us better, The Steps, being hopeless and some random nonsense. It's been a great week and we have a wonderful, sob...
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April 20, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 113 (Rewire Your Electric Meatball)

Yay! It's us again! Yep, Mike and Bill and we got through an entire episode with no "real" technology issues. Mike started off with a reading about old behavior. Blaming others, denial and just being people that we don't want to be today. It was a great conversation. He also did a recap of the Keating Center event from last weekend and we talked about the easiest way to give back in early sobriety, or at any time. A couple of listener comments, bitching about other podcasts, a fun news ...
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April 13, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 112 (Did He Mention He's A Hiker?)

This week we are all fired up and ready to roll! Ok, maybe not fired up. But we filled some time. Mike started out with his reading and it was about love. Kind of touchy feely, I suppose, but it was a good topic and a good conversation. Then we talked about the eclipse. Mike saw more than I did, but it was definitely an event. Looking for the third door, traveling stories, being grateful for your problems, pain as a defect, relapse talk and pride. What else? Absolute nonsense, but ma...
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April 6, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 111 (Elderly Watersports & Other Searches)

This week, it's the same old stuff, just a different week. Mike did his reading and it was about loyalty and cleverness. The way we are now and the way we were then. Guess which one we choose? We received our update from Google as far as how people find our podcast website and the search terms that they use. You don't want to miss this part. April is National Alcohol Awareness Month and we talked about that a little bit. The Easter weekend wrap up, Craig Ferguson, the point of no ret...
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March 30, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 110 (Judgmental Douchebaggery)

This week we have... yep, it's us! And a Good Friday to all of you. Mike started off with his reading and it was about acceptance. It's one of our favorite topics and it was a good conversation. Mike also had a day of "acceptance." Sober dreams, accepting mistakes, trusting the process, not regretting the past (nor wishing to shut the door on it), what's in your heart will be spoken and stepping into the day with all of your heart. It was smorgasbord of topics, from your favorite jud...
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March 23, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 109 (Nut For A Head?)

Yep, it's your favorite guys again. Struggling with technology, but still trying to make our corner of the world a little bit better. Mike started out with his reading and it was actually about feelings. Certainly not always on our list of topics, but it was a good conversation. Then we talked about some rock 'n' roll stories. We dove into a few recovery sayings, talked about honesty vs. cruelty, the physical signs of alcohol abuse, and finally a tough question about what we actually do...
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March 16, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 108 (Please Excuse Our Dust)

This week we have... more technical difficulties. It's Mike and Bill and we are still dealing with some delay issues, but oh well. We started out with a couple of announcements and then Mike did his reading. It was about guilt and shame and as always, it was a good conversation. Then a little trip down memory lane and the last 30 days before we got sober. We are both grateful to be on this side of things now. The Promises came to mind and we spent a little time reading through them a...
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March 9, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 107 (Willing To Support Our Will)

**Yep... we had delay issues again, but we made it through!** We've got Mike and Bill again. Mike started out with his reading and it was about giving and not taking. What we used to be and thankfully what we are now. It was a good conversation. The episode picture has meaning. Listen and you will hear it. We had a few random things like old drinking habits, T.V. shows and movies about sobriety, alcohol assessments, past insanity and we got an email from a good friend, who is also a ...
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March 2, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 106 (Calm Snark When Dealing With Thorns)

*Just a heads up, we had a slight delay again with the recording* This week it's Mike and Bill again. Mike started off with his reading and it was all about service. Doing things for other people and our lives get better. Imagine that. Then a brief conversation about atheism. There is a reading in the 24 Hour Book every year and we talked about it. Mike is an atheist and Bill is at best agnostic, so it was a good conversation. And we received some bad news this week. A very close fri...
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Feb. 24, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 105 (Technology Is Our Friend, But It Won't Pick Us Up From The Airport)

This week we have Mike and Bill AND... The start of Season 5! We had some technology issues, so when you hear the delay with us talking, oh well. It is what it is. **Make sure to scan the QR Code!!** Mike did his reading and it was about living in the moment. That is something that we talk about a lot and it's the back bone of our sobriety. We talked about judging people, the first time people drank, the easier, softer way, being a prick on purpose, risky places and the worst day sob...
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Feb. 17, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 104 (Shark Jumping)

This week we have Mike and Bill and the Season 4 finale! It's just us, but as always, we filled the time. Mike did his reading and it was about how fragile we all were and how we now work together. We had some laughs, but it was a good conversation. One of us has a birthday this weekend and we revisited what we think of birthdays. (It's probably what you expect) Then we were all over the place. We talked about Lent, a radio gig, God ads, Fletch, the 10th Step, regrets, being afraid of o...
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Feb. 10, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 103 (Some Are Sicker Than Others)

This week we have a split episode! Carly from Episode 83 is back and she has a bunch of stuff that she is doing and we wanted to help her spread the word. She is still working on Trust Your Message @trustyourmess_age, she is modeling and she wrote a book, that is in print and now available as an audio book on Amazon. The book is called Human: Behind the Mask and you can find more information on her other Instagram page @bycarlyannmariereed We sent Carly on her way and Mike did his reading....
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Feb. 3, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 102 (Verbally Spanking The Groundhog)

This week we have... Well, you are stuck with Mike and Bill this week and we had some catching up to do. Mike did his reading and it was about the need for a higher power. Having one, trusting it and believing that it works. It was a good conversation. Then some vacation talk from Bill's trip to Myrtle Beach and a funeral that he went to this week for his ex-mother-in-law. On to alcohol awareness, mistakes in early recovery, not being a victim, absolute honesty and staying a beginner...
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Jan. 27, 2024

SoberNotMature - Episode 101 (Amanda and Ginny - We Make Them Say Bad Words)

This week we have: Amanda McKoy Flanagan @amandamckoyflanagan and Ginny Olivas-Smith @ginnyos13 Hosts of the Sol Rising Podcast @solrisingpodcast Amanda is an author, podcaster, and motivational speaker and she recently released her award-winning inspirational memoir, Trust Yourself to Be All In: Safe to Love and Let Go. www.amandamckoyflanagan.com Ginny is a wife, Mom of two beautiful kids and the founder and owner of THE FLIPPIN’ PHOENIX FURNITURE REHAB company. Her passion for soul s...